Help! i’m a straight guy who just slept with my gay best friend. now what?
The dilemma I am a year-old man and I had, until last year, identified as a straight man. We were good mates then, but nothing more.
We are both architects and I went to see some of his latest work. He offered me a drink and we ended up getting drunk.
He is slightly older and also identifies as heterosexual. He is really good looking but, mysteriously, has been single for many years.
We drank too much and kissed. I know I love him dearly.
Recently, he has stopped kissing me on the lips, but we sleep in the same bed and cuddle. I am confused.
Mariella replies What a conundrum. You really need to talk! In your case, Cuckold foot slave stories, neither of you appears to have faced up to where it might lead. This tryst that dare not speak its name feels positively 19th century and your mysterious, good-looking, serially single and emotionally buttoned-up colleague positively Darcyesque.
Are you the right sex, are you sexy, are you brothers-in-arms or just good for a placatory cuddle?
There must be a veritable babel of questions bubbling around your brain. A liaison with a fellow adult involving this degree of guesswork about sexual orientation is definitely not an example Fat girls sex tapes mature romancing.
A drunken kiss is easy to explain away, but a year of unrequited sleepovers rather less so. Sissy baby humiliation stories are lucky to live in enlightened times, in a part of the world where the climate for self expression has never been more welcoming.
Your future happiness may rely on you walking past him and out into pastures new and unprecedented.
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