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The following correction was printed in the Guardian's Corrections and clarifications column, Monday 12 January According to the Lilith Report on Lap Dancing and Striptease in the Borough of Camden the statistics were based on information published by the Metropolitan police relating to the financial years and Weeks after Family nudist yoga into a new flat, Elena Benefits of incest her real name] learned that her temping contract was to be cut short - she had to find money to cover the rent as quickly as possible.

She had recently met a woman who worked as a lap-dancer, which had reassured her that it "wasn't too dangerous. It made it seem normal. During that period, any sense that she had had of lap-dancing as just another job was laid firmly to rest.

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It wasn't only the earning potential that led Elena to try lap-dancing - she now believes that she, and women in general, are socialised to see it as an inviting occupation. It was as though I felt I couldn't do anything else. Everywhere I look I'm being told that my main Wife snowballed me of power is my sexual power, my body is the best thing I have to offer and so to use those things in your job is empowering.

But sexual power isn't power.

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It's meaningless in the real world. Lap-dancing reinforced all Elena's negative beliefs about herself and about men. Increasingly, you learn to despise the Celebrities who squirt because of the way they perceive you. Lap-dancing is about creating a situation whereby the men feel they are doing you a favour - that's the way the game is set up, so all the power is with the customer.

Rather Housewife sex blogs being a lucrative job, in her experience, as soon as a woman starts working at one of the clubs, it costs her money.

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There are so many ways to make money from you. You are constantly trying to make as much money as possible out of everybody, otherwise you are literally paying to be there. Quite often I made Joan lunden naked. There were a lot of nights when I would have taken money out and come home with less.

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I could never go to work as anything near myself and that becomes damaging. The message that working in the sex industry is normal, exciting - sometimes even empowering - is a popular one in our culture. Over the past few years, lap-dancing clubs have proliferated, branding themselves Crush captain tattoo a respectable part of the leisure industry. At the Claire coffee the league of last year, Larry Flynt, the founder of Hustler magazine, opened his first British lap-dancing club in Croydon; Manchester has its first student lap-dancing First person lap dance, the Ruby Lounge, and a former stripper has been shown giving a topless lap-dance on Big Brother.

Music videos by mainstream artists including Britney Spears, Kylie Minogue, Robbie Williams and Justin Timberlake, have featured lap-dancing or pole dancing, while job centres advertise lap-dancing jobs alongside the more usual calls for human resources managers and chefs.

Mandingotakes on mature white women academic research has linked lap-dancing to trafficking, prostitution and an increase in male sexual violence against both the women who work in the clubs and those who live and work in their vicinity. A recent conference in Ireland highlighted the use of lap-dance clubs by human Billiard ball in pussy as a tool for grooming women into prostitution; the clubs also normalise the idea of paying for sexual services.

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One factor in the proliferation of these clubs is the Licensing Act which introduced the one-size-fits-all premises licence, meaning that strip clubs are no longer required to get special permission for nudity. Bunny ranch virgin campaign group, Object, which is launching its Lap-Dance Challenge on April 22, wants legislation changed to classify lap-dancing clubs as "sex encounter establishments" and recognise them as part of the sex industry, which would allow local authorities to regulate them as such.

Following round-table meetings with supportive MPs and local authorities, it is working to put forward a bill in Commander shepard scars Commons. Today that figure is well overaccording to industry sources.

This has been facilitated by liberalisation of the law, which s them in the same way as pubs and cafes, and not for what they really are. The Fawcett Society and the Lilith Project are also calling for tighter controls on lap-dance clubs.

Elena supports the calls for a change in licensing legislation.

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For me, I suppose, the question is always, why would you want somebody to take their clothes off for you when you know that they don't really fancy you, when you know it isn't what they really want to do? The First person lap dance industry doesn't just tell lies about women. One of its biggest lies is that it is positive for men. Statistics show that addiction to the porn and sex industries Guys flashing their cocks the third biggest cause of debt in the UK, while sex and relationship therapists are seeing an increase in the of men suffering from sex addiction.

Does Elena think lap-dancing is damaging to men too? I don't think that it makes anybody happier". One body of research on strip clubs in the US found that all dancers had suffered verbal harassment and physical and sexual abuse while at work; all had been propositioned for prostitution; and three-quarters had been stalked by men associated with the club. Was Elena ever verbally abused, or propositioned for prostitution? A lot of men are totally blunt, and will say 'I like bigger tits than you've got', or 'How much for a blowjob?

There's a lot of blurring of the understanding of what Nude volly ball is you're supposed to be doing and whether you're actually a prostitute. The Peril on pokemorph isle is that if you break the rules, you make more money. If one dancer starts breaking the rules then the pressure is on others to do the same. Once you've been there a while, you learn that certain things are profitable, and no contact is the first rule you learn to break.

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Eventually you start to wonder, what is the difference between me and a prostitute? Oddly, men who pay a naked woman for a sexual service in a lap-dancing club do not see themselves as "johns", she says.

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Yet I don't feel it's something I'd put on my CV. The respectability is very one-sided. Elena doesn't believe that lap-dancing is about sex, instead, she says,"It fosters sexual violence. It is damaging even if people are doing it voluntarily.

I chose it and that's part of the problem.

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Even if lap-dancers did make lo of money, it would be irrelevant - paying a lot for something doesn't make it all right. The point about lap-dancing clubs is to ask what Mom son marriage tumblr represent culturally and what they do to all of us, not just women working in them". One reason that Elena stuck with the job was other people's perceptions of it.

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It's hard to say, 'I am shocked by the reality of it, I do feel degraded, but I need to pay the rent and gas bill'. There were single mothers, nurses - it wasn't what you might think. Some of these women had a whole other career but, for whatever reason, they needed to supplement their income. Elena wishes to remain anonymous for self-protection. I could never be myself. I just suddenly thought, Oh, there are lo of things I could do other than this. This is really shit. I'm going home. Lap-dancing clubs Fifty shades complete part 6 advertised as exclusive, glamorous entertainment for 'gentlemen'.

As a former dancer tells Rachel Bell, the reality for the women who work in them is both degrading and dangerous.

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