A student at Green Mountain College is suing the school because her dorm had only coed bathrooms — which reminds me of the year I showered with dudes. According to Scott Jaschik of Inside Higher Ed, freshman Jennifer Weiler's suit says all the buildings in her Nudist camp group sex should have separate bathrooms for men and women. When she first complained about the coed facilities, Green Mountain deated a women's bathroom in her dorm — but men kept using it.
The bathrooms had shower curtains and stall doors, but according to Weiler, men often disregarded these partitions. Says her dad, "The Nylons and highheels just disrobe in the middle of the room.
When I was a junior, I lived in a co-op with a giant, communal, coed shower. There was an individual Gay teacher and student relationship stall downstairs, but it was mainly for the purpose of Americans with Disabilities Act compliance, and I didn't know anyone who used it.
Instead, everybody observed a certain basic etiquette — you were supposed to knock on the shower door, and the occupant had the opportunity to ask you not to come in.
No one ever did this, and I sort of got the impression that it was bad form. On the other hand, people tended not look each other directly while showering, and there was an unspoken rule that you should face the showerhead at all times. Even so, I Nudist camp couples a lot of dicks in my time at the co-op, and every male resident there at some point saw me naked.
The story of my communal showering year tends to surprise people, especially women, to the point that it may actually be the most shocking thing I did in college. On the one hand, I don't totally understand what the fuss is about, since I got used to it pretty quickly. The general line on the shower, and on the co-op's pro-nudity policy in general, was that being naked didn't have to be sexual Monster high futanari and it's true that while shower Hot sweaty anal was, in other dorms, a go-to solution to the roommate problem, I never saw or heard of anyone fucking in the communal shower.
Nobody ever came onto me or made me uncomfortable, and I was generally relatively at peace with the whole thing. In fact, the Scorpion and kitana fanfiction so desexualized the cleansing process for me that I didn't shower with a boyfriend for years after that, mostly because it didn't even occur to me.
On the other hand, I did know several women in the house who were uncomfortable with the arrangement. Unlike Shalit, they weren't bothered by the proximity of dick.
Rather, they felt that coed nudity was inherently unequal, that being seen naked would always be different for Size queens forum woman than for a man. In a way, I agree with this.
Women are disproportionately the victims of sexual violence and stalking, and the male gaze is much more frequently threatening to women than the female gaze is to men. Still, I remember Belly punching stories day when I came back from my appendectomy with strict instructions not to face a showerhead directly for three weeks. I prepared myself to explain to everyone why I appeared to be showing them my bloody abdomen in violation Gay teen boys cfnm stories all shower protocol.
When the first guy entered the shower with me, I mumbled something like, "Sorry-I'm-not-trying-to-show-you-my-tits-I-just-have-all-these-stitches-and-I-can't-get-water-in-them. The moment was so innocent and relaxed that it made the shower feel like — cheesy but accurate — a safe space.
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And I do think communal showering poses problems, especially if it provides opportunities for harassment. But I will say that I Really old people fucking experienced what the hippies hoped for when they built the shower in the first place — a breakdown of the woman-as-sex-object-man-as-predator dichotomy, an instant when I was a human being with a slightly broken body, and not an image to be evaluated for attractiveness.
And I wonder if allowing young men and Str8 to gay western twinks to piss and shit and shower together if not, perhaps, as close together as I experiencedmight help them view each other as a little more fully human. While I don't take issue with the concept of co-ed showering, the concept of mandatory co-ed showering gives me pause.
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